My dear phoenix;
Too many people blend in. I can’t stress enough how important it is to give yourself an identity. Find a way to shoot forward in a sunburst of originality and give yourself that cutting edge personality. It will serve you in ways you can’t imagine down the road. Break off from the introductories of fashion and the lessons of mentality given by society and write yourself a rule book. Make it beautiful and make it yours. Because there are some things not made out of stone, some things others can’t get to, and who you are, is one of those things.
Give yourself the freedom to not bind to the people on either side of you, and come through the ashes.